How is HIV positive diagnosed? In 2015, Andre (36) found out that he was infected with a virus – a shock to him and his partner Fabiana (26). At first they believed that it was Andrina's death sentence. Today, they both lead a normal life and clarify the infection. Because there are many prejudices and half-knowledge about HIV / AIDS. On the other hand, only one thing helps: talk about it.
HIV-positive: there is no death penalty
"Well, the first thought was the horror, yes, I think the horror is good," Andre recalls the moment in which diagnosis is HIV-positive got. At that time, the marketing advisor worked for three years with a student of architecture Fabian. "Of course, I'm thinking a lot about how to tell Fabian I'm HIV positive," says Andre. In addition to general questions like "Will I still be able to work?" or "How long will I live?", he was very scared that Fabian would leave him. But his friend he never thought about separation, Fabian was convinced from the beginning: "We can do it together." His biggest concern was that his partner must die soon. Fully unreasonable concern, as they know it today. because HIV is no longer a death penalty,
HIV is not the same as AIDS
HIV and AIDS are often treated equally. This is not true. HIV, an abbreviation for Human immunodeficiency virus, is an infection that weakens the immune system. UnbeatenDelt leads them to AIDS (Acquired Immune Defensive Syndrome). However, if you are HIV-positive, AIDS does not occur. This means that HIV infection is always there the cause of AIDSbut not every person infected with HIV is automatically infected with AIDS.
Due to HI virus unhealthyr patients must undergo lifelong therapy. It is taken in the form of a tablet. Andrew, for example, takes one tablet a day and therefore is "below the detection limit", that is, he the virus can not pass, He has no side effects, because the liver and kidney are regularly checked. "It's pretty easy for me," he says. "The fact that the therapies are now well tolerated, HIV-positive people normal life "says Fabian.
Therefore, everyday life in HIV positively differs from healthy people. "When you're on therapy, you are more infectious"says Fabian," so you're no longer a danger to other people or specifically to your sexual partner. And that's not what many know. "
Only a few can be tested
The perverted thing about the HI virus is that you are not necessarily symptoms or discomfort it tells you something is wrong. Even if health problems occur, you often can not assign them. "Therefore, a relatively small number of people can be tested or just go to a doctor when Aids has already broken out," says Andre.
In any case, the biggest problem is that most people do not know what they are doing. "Before Andre's diagnosis, I always thought I was pretty well informed," Fabian remembers, especially since he does not deal with so many topics, "because no one has anything to do with it." There is one for Andrea and him a huge difference in knowledge opened. "In the beginning, I asked myself questions such as: Can we drink from a glass?" Fabian is thinking and adds: "If someone knows that for ten years now he knows that there is no treatment to be infected – no kiss, nor sex without a condom… it's obvious that nobody knows. "This ignorance leads to the fact that in society still outdated image of HIV since. And this social stigma is worst, say these two.
HIV is not a pure gay topic
Lack of knowledge Andre explains: "Of course, you usually use a condom at the beginning, but at some point you believe yourself." How much does a doctor do with his friend or girlfriend and is tested before a condom? "omitted"?
Fabian can confirm this from interviews with fellow students. "When I listen to this, it's often said," Well, if you take the pill, you can leave the condom. "Little would think that much more can happen than unwanted pregnancy. "HIV is not a pure gay theme"says Fabian. "There are also heterosexual people many undetected infections. "
Since 1995, the number of new infections in Germany has been constant at 2,000 to 2,500 per year. It is estimated that some 87,000 people live in this country with the HI virus 13,000 do not knowFor Andrea and Fabian, that was the reason for the release of their story. "Our goal is not to say that you do not have to protect yourself from HIV, because that's not bad," says Andre. "We are You want to enlighten and show how important it is to talk about this topic. But we also want to show that dealing with patients with HIV does not differ from how we deal with people without HIV. "
The two began to deal with Andre's Ride, humanitarian races or night club events. As of this year, they also support the "# nochvielvor"The aim of this is to bring the couple closer to people who work openly and without prejudice to the issue of HIV Encouraged courage Yes. Because only one thing helps against social stigma: testimony.
Three facts to know about HIV:
- A patient with HIV who is in successful therapy is on the rise No chance infectious.
- HIV tests are offered by doctors, health departments and AIDS.
- About 13,000 heterosexual and homosexual people in Germany do not know about their HIV infection and therefore are not in therapy. People who know about their infection are usually in therapy and, unlike 13,000, they are no longer infectious. Just the test helps!